Those of you who know me know that we've gone back and forth about one
hundred million times on the issue of whether or not to send JM to kindergarten in the fall. Next week our intent to return forms are due at his current school, which is forcing the issue. As of right now, we are red-shirting JM.... and as of this week, I think we are also switching schools. As wonderful as our school is, the schedule is killing me. JM has pick up at 1:45 twice a week, but Noah can only go until noon. I do carpool one day a week, but that time between 9 and noon goes by FAST. With travel time, I feel like I spend half my morning on Mopac. I took a tour at a school just down the road and really liked it. They started us off in chapel and when the little children walked into their weekly chapel both singing and signing the church song
"Sanctuary" they totally had me. Our current school is so sweet and it's been amazing watching JM and Noah grow through the play-based learning, but it's not that overtly Christian and it's also far from our house. The new one would be a 4 minute drive aaaaand even more, they have a drop off where the parent doesn't get out of the car. What a difference that will be for this pack horse! Deal= sealed!
For us, it's all about emotional maturity. I think academically, JM could hang in kinder. Our neighbors gave us some old Bob books and he is really into reading. He is reading really well, but being a young 4 (late May), there is also a lot of wiggling going on, in general.
We'll see! Any thoughts on red-shirting, blog readers? As my former kindergarten teacher mom said, I don't think we'll ever regret holding him, but we may regret sending him. I like the idea of being cautious.
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We're keeping Anderson back. He makes the 2013 cutoff (Oct 1 here in CO, his bday is Sept 17) but I want to give him that extra year to grow - physically and cognitively. I have yet to talk to ONE single teacher who advocates starting a kid early if you're on the fence, particularly with boys.
And the selfish mama part of me thinks, hey, that's one more year I get to have my child living in my house with me. I'm sure next winter I'll have a few moments where I question the value of that - ha! - but really, they grow up and go fast enough the way it is.
tteeAndplusalso, I'd give my left arm for a drop off that didn't require me to get out of the car with the school child and the two younger sibs. MY WHOLE LEFT ARM.
I think my whole left arm has about fallen off from juggling a wiggly baby, lunchboxes and artwork for the past three years at our school! I have been really debating the new school, but the drop-off totally sealed the deal!
Oh, and I LOVE the idea of shielding them from "the real world" for one more year! Yes, ask me again next December, but today anyway, it will be great to have him not know what sex is or who Justin Bieber is, etc, for a little longer. :)
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